Alot of people is wondering why my dental treatment was so expensive. Everyone are wrong. This is the cheapest Minor Surgery Procedure. The normal price range is from $150 to $350 but that doctor is just charging $120. Even my dad didnt believe till my mum show him the receipt.
Super long story for yesterday night. Dont know where to start. Okay, i start from here. Mum ask me whether i'm going home tonight or stay at CCK. I just reply "How am i going back with the PadLock changed." My mum go angry, keep nagging at us and even trying to find Mum In-law number and call her. Mum was talking on phone with Mum In-law for around 45mins to 1hr just b'cos of all the things that have happen during this few weeks. As Mum was talking, her tear drop from the side of her eyes. After they hang the phone, I not sure what they have done. Mindy told us that Hubby say we can go over JE tonight to collect my stuffs. Before leaving the house, Mum called Mum In-law that we are going down tonight. Me, Mum, Rony, Ryan, Joanne & Mindy took cab to JE while Ice & Jeff was already there waiting for us. Reason for going down to JE is they are helping me bring my stuffs back as Hubby have changed the PadLock. When we reach void deck, Dad In-law & Mum In-law was already there waiting for us. Me & Rony went up 1st. Hubby have already placed the new PadLock. The only ways to get him open the door is to ring the door bell. When he opened the door, i straight went in to the Master Bedroom can pack all mines & the boys stuffs. Do you know how much stuffs we have? Do you know what weather is it? You wun believe it as it can fill up the whole pickup lorry plus the weather was raining. Dad In-law helped to send the stuff home together with Ice & Jeff while Joanne and Mindy took cab back. Me, Mum, Mum In-law stay behind together with Rony & Ryan to settle our stuffs by face to face talk. No matters how long we have talk, the ending is still the same.
Before went to bed, at 12.20am, Hubby sented me a few SMS "Yes, my words are cruel just now. I'm already frustrated. Under so much stress on top of it you see my mum, she has aged so much after the death of my 2 grandparents. Can't we be practical and solve this in peace and not get the old people in? I just want to be alone now so i can solve my own problems. I dont want any more problems. Regarding the boys. Why i choose to fight? I will not choose to fight if you had not threaten to end their lives. Is it worth> Why i want Ryan so much? I own him too much bringing him to this world with a broken family. Not that i dont want Rony. But Ryan is too pitiful. I intend to make up to him with the rest of my life. I'm in poor health now. Just give me some room to breath." "Please dont bring my mum into the picture again. She is on verge of breakdown. I dont want her to suffer the same fate as my ahma "Lao Ren Qi Tai". Just let her be happy till the end of her days. On that asshole dad i have, what happen to him I dont care. Though i use cruel words it's actually stabbing me in my heart. i no longer care about the marriage. I just want to earn money so i can provide for the boys. I'm better off alone. One word of confirmation, i never treat you as yingying cause your character and hers is two different issues. I have tried to love but seriously i cant because of the fate i am destined to have. Believe it or not. It's for your own good. Just trust me this once." This is what i replied "I cant give up this marriage since we have been quarreling for so many times within 2yr plus. But sorry, I will not give up for the custody for both of the boys. If you really want to fight for custody, no choice, let settle in court bah."
This morning when i wake up, saw this msg from Hubby. "Ok, let's fight then. I'll make it more interesting. Dont forget what your dad does for the past few yrs. See how he can fork out the cash for you since you all depend on him for the cash for fighting. Let wait and see.""Since you love to bring in my parents in, let's make it big by involving yrs. I'm sure CBIB and CAD will be beri interested. I'm making a trip down now since i cant sleep well thanks to you.""Just in case you dont believe. I have the information, I let you see. Chua Kok K****, IC S141****A. I long ago already prepared for this battle." What i only can say, go ahead and report. Dont forget about your friends. You wan play cruel. I also can.
At 7.30pm, I took a cab back to JE just to have a talk with Hubby. All the talk was very simple as we just want to make things clear. Hubby have promise that he wun use the PadLock again as i still need sometime to go back and bring back some of the stuffs. All agreement was clear. He will continue use whatever that is under my name but he will have to pay me. This also save me lots of trouble as there are still contract. If i will to terminate it, i will have to pay penatly. As for the custody of the boys, we wun be fighting anymore but the judge have the final say. I also promised Hubby that on every Saturday night, i will be bringing the boys back to JE and stay with him for just 1 night, unless he inform me not to bring them over. I hugged Hubby for the last time as i really doesnt want to divorce/separate. We also promise that we will still friends even though we are not husband & wife anymore but are still the boys natural parents. After having all the talking, Hubby followed me back home but he just stay at the void deck waiting for me to bring the boys down for him to see. Hubby feel sad while Rony doesnt want to get close to him. Whatever we ask, he just say dont want. Even we say "Ryan follow PaPa home". He run toward Ryan and say cannot. He scare Hubby will take Ryan away from him. Around 10.30pm, Hubby say it's already late, better bring them back. So before we went off, Rony finally gave Hubby a kiss before we went back home.==========
Yes, I admit that when Rony was admitted to KKH for UTI, I was sleeping. But do you know how critical my jobs is? What happen if released a defected cartridge out for sale? If i dont care about Rony, why should i take 4 Unpaid Leave when i still under probation to look after him? Do you know that my leave wasnt approved by supervisor? The leave was approved by my manager. I almost lost this job just b'cos of the simple leave.
I didnt take care of the boys? Who paid for all the milk powder, pampers and other stuffs? Who bring them for their medical checkups & injections? Who paid for all the stuffs? Who is the one taking care of them when they will back in JE?
I never bring Ryan home? Who told me & my mum that waited for Ryan around 6 months old then bring him home? Just b'cos that you scare he is the same as Rony, will disturb you when you will sleeping.
Why Rony doesnt want to go back JE? You should know it yourself. What have you done to me when he's around?
